I’ve known a lot of angry, glass-half-empty people over my long life and sadly I don’t think many of them lived especially productive or happy lives.
There was a time when folks like this were kindly regarded as harmless curmudgeons or eccentrics. Today, as their numbers multiply exponentially, we should consider them downright dangerous. They are quick to lay blame and are easy targets for politicians and other predators offering up bait like hate, retaliation, and hanging out with like-minded people.
Ironically, social media—which was heralded as the elixir that would make communications cheap and accessible, spread knowledge and bring people together—has evolved into a tool to spread hate, lies, and conspiracy theories on a scale that is truly staggering.
We are living in a world rife with lies and misinformation and struggling for what is the truth. Respect for and confidence in our democratic institutions is in the crosshairs.
Like the United States, our society is so polarized that the term “silent majority” has come to describe the mass of people who are afraid to express opinions for fear of economic and social reprisal from those who hold opposing views and have no tolerance for the opinions and rights of others.
Political discourse has become so toxic that the good women and men willing to seek public office speak openly about concern for their security and that of their families.
We daily witness individuals and groups demanding “freedom”, which is code for cancelling the hard-fought freedoms of others.
The pandemic has been a willing partner in the propagation of anger. Isolation has provided a perfect breeding ground and many of us know families torn apart by differing opinions over vaccine beliefs and rules.
The current contest to determine the new leadership of the Conservative Party of Canada (CPC) has come down to the challenge of appealing to moderate voters while satiating the more vocal angry and extremist elements in the party. Who can heal the divides in the party and in the country?
In a peculiar, typically Canadian way, too many of us have gone silent and withdrawn while the naysayers and the mad destroy respect for and confidence in Canada’s democratic institutions, rights, and freedoms. We’ve handed over the reins to those who shout the loudest.
And by extremes I mean those on both the left and right—from those who would try to cancel our culture by denying freedom of speech and destroying or crating statues of our nation’s founders to those whose religious beliefs would ban women’s reproductive rights and the equality rights of minority groups of all colour, ethnicity, and sexual orientation.
And I should pause and say I have empathy for some of the angry and fearful among us. For example, the division between rich and poor in this country continues to widen. Some people simply can’t catch a break.
Governments’ handling of the pandemic has been spotty. Some people actually prospered from government handouts and government job security while many lost their jobs, businesses, and homes. Right now, record inflation is taking its toll on families.
Working parents in particular were beaten down with erratic school openings and closings and online learning. So were the students—from kindergarten to university levels. Thousands quit school and many won’t ever return.
Health care workers put their own lives and those of their families on the line to keep underfunded hospitals and nursing homes open—often without adequate compensation.
The list goes on—and gets worse.
For so long we have been tucked under the protective and prosperous wing of our neighbour to the south, benefitting from American wealth, power, and security while considering ourselves superior in many ways (some of them quite quaint). We’ve celebrated what we have in common with the Americans, twisted ourselves into pretzels to identify and protect our distinctions, and laughed at their foibles.
Today, it is no laughing matter that the United States has run amok and I believe we are hellbent toward the same slippery slope.
It has oft been said that when the U.S. elephant sneezes, Canada gets a cold—or words to that effect.
Some sneeze. Some cold!
Right now, the U.S. is in turmoil over the possible overthrow of a 50-year-old abortion law that will have enormous impact on the U.S. economy, civility, and reproductive rights.
It has also raised the question that if a hard-right Republican Party, with crazed former President Donald Trump still pulling the strings, can wipe out this basic right of millions, what other rights are on the block?
Typically, the issue of reproductive rights has quickly made its way to Canada, raising the spectre of the U.S. debate invigorating those who campaign here to make abortions illegal.
We’ve learned a lot of lessons from our brawny cousin to the south. Not all of them good.
There is little question that the hate-fueled Capitol riot in Washington helped inspire our “freedom convoy” of truckers that was hijacked by some very dangerous people and caused this country untold billions in lost trade and reputation and amounted to a virtual lockdown of our nation’s capital.
An overthrow of the Canadian government was the wet dream of key organizers who referenced the U.S. legal system in their written demands but showed complete ignorance of how Canada is actually governed.
America’s anti-vaxxers quickly became role models for our own.
Their conspiracy theories have become our conspiracy theories.
When Donald Trump took office, he ushered in a whole new era in which lies, deceit, arrogance, and hate became the major tools of governance and governors. Young people watched the successor to Lincoln and Roosevelt and Kennedy turn the White House into a circus and the country into a laughing stock.
Profanity, racism, misogamy, violence, intolerance, and contempt for truth, public discourse, and authority are hallmarks of life in today’s America.
Sadly, they are becoming more familiar to us up here in the Great White North.
CPC leadership contestant Pierre Poilievre (a supporter of the truck convoy), tirades against “elites” and “gatekeepers” and recklessly attacks one of our country’s leading institutions—the Bank of Canada—to show he’s a tough guy who will take on anyone and everything. He’d begin by firing the Bank’s governor.
It turns out to be a convenient distraction from his earlier devotion to bitcoin as a way to opt out of inflation. Unfortunately for him, bitcoin is currently in free fall and hopefully so is his credibility as someone to be entrusted with addressing Canada’s deep and dangerous debt levels and safeguarding confidence in public institutions that have served us well over the years.
Did I mention that he’d also get rid of the CBC ?
There are some good candidates among the six contenders to lead the CPC. Pierre Poilievre and his take no prisoners approach to governing is not one of them.
In my view, Canada is at the crossroads.
Democracies like ours cannot survive where extreme nationalism by a seemingly growing number is fueled by hatred and lies and stoked by silent complicity. We’ve seen this movie before.
If you believe, as I do, that our system of government depends on strong, honest, and competent leadership at all levels and that in Ottawa this includes the leader of the Opposition to hold government to account, then the Conservative Party leadership vote on September 10 deserves our attention.
Only CPC members can vote and membership closes June 3.
The mainstream or “silent majority” has to re-engage or some day try to explain to our grandkids how we allowed the angry and cynical to destroy one of the world’s great democracies that once believed in, practiced, and protected equality, freedom, and opportunity for all.

Sally Barnes has enjoyed a distinguished career as a writer, journalist and author. Her work has been recognized in a number of ways, including receiving a Southam Fellowship in Journalism at Massey College at the University of Toronto. A self-confessed political junkie, she has worked in the back-rooms for several Ontario premiers. In addition to a number of other community contributions, Sally Barnes served a term as president of the Ontario Council on the Status of Women. She is a former business colleague of Doppler’s publisher, Hugh Mackenzie, and lives in Kingston, Ontario. You can find her online at sallybarnesauthor.com.
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Nancy Long says
It is sad. That to be silent is the best course of action. Of course! It draws no criticism, condemnation or complaints. All the aspects of the long held theory of Carnegie. Just go along to get ahead.
Anna-Lise Kear says
Sally Barnes, a well-summarized commentary. I would love to get rid of the phrase “cancel culture”. The term seems to evoke/represent strident opposites. We need to be reminded of what words mean. For example, one opinion does not obliterate another viewpoint. I have yet to learn an understandable definition of the term – even though the supposition is that “all” of us know exactly what this means!
However, change is inevitable. For example, I have noticed that recent Hollywood actors/sports commentators who have been reasonably censured for their words and behaviour, cannot understand why this has happened to them? On the surface, I would suggest that each has failed to recognize and learn that their understanding of social justice for others in society has changed/grown/evolved. They, as we, are products of our times – important to continue to learn.
Toning down the rhetoric by defining terms may help dilute some written/spoken toxicity. As an example, I recently caught myself using the phrase “Stephen Harper’s pitbull” when describing the performance behaviour of one Conservative candidate. When the NP used a similar dog metaphor to describe a provincial debate, I bristled. I had fallen into the same trap, and I understand how easy this is to do.
Therefore, I suggest that as a writer of commentaries, it may forward your hopes and concerns if catch phrases are used in your writing, that they are both examined and defined. I believe you can still express your point and opinion well. Just a thought.
Anna-Lise Kear says
Sally Barnes; I do not share your mild view of “Governments’ handling of the pandemic has been spotty”.
As expressed many times, the leadership and handling of the pandemic in Ontario has been more than “spotty” and I hope will be reflected in the upcoming election. For example. communicating with/to the public about the underlying reasons for protective health laws during a public health emergency was not just “spotty” but grossly inadequate. Commitment to our public health was given with a shy, “gosh folks” apology by the Premier. There was bound to be normal opposition, but where was the effort to lead by example, to boldly take the helm in a crisis?
Yet with a bit of deserved recognition to trades people and the acceptance of this easy flattery, in my opinion, poor performance during a crisis, and an agenda of for-profit advancing again in healthcare, including hospital care is somehow lost.
I appreciate this forum, thank you.
Ray Vowels says
Sally i’m afraid I have to somewhat agree with you on a few points but one point i disagree with is the truckers freedom convoy. First there was no mention of ever overthrowing the govt. and second there was no violence at all until the cops showed up in force to stop a legal demonstration. The only reason the city was shut down was because the mayor ordered it, The one or two places that refused to close did a wonderful business. In fact some businesses were saved by staying open. I think you should talk to at least a few people who were there and maybe watch some of the live footage of the homeless people being fed and in some instances given a place to sleep. Check out the the crime rate in the city dropped by about 90% while the truckers were there. And I don’t understand how you can be blaming Trump for the mess the U.S. is in right now he has been out of office for two years and still being blamed for everything that is wrong, And if this is not posted it just proves that anyone opinion has to match what people want to hear even if it’s not the truth.
Anthony Clark says
In the ‘Dismal Science’ of economics, Gresham’s Law states that “Bad money drives out good”. That certainly seems to be happening to political discourse if I understand Sally correctly.
Of course no less a conservative ( sometimes) than Winston Churchill was notorious for his personal attacks on opponents. But today the social media megaphone is all powerful.
If you need to see Trumpism at work, compare the per capita ratio of CoViD deaths in The USA Canada and Australia. It is 10::3.25::1 . Not fake news btw.
Murray Christenson says
Sally, sadly, I have to agree with everything you are saying. I have signed up for membership in the CPC for the sole purpose of voting against Pollievre…he is one dangerous politician and a threat to democracy in Canada. He will appear nowhere on my ballot.
At this point, I’d tend to support Mr Charest but I have to say our own Scott Aitchison has impressed of late and come to the table with some solid policy ideas.
Phillip Lam says
Ray, the truckers are coming back, and we’ll send them to your neck of the woods. Let’s see how you feel about that. Geez. The real truckers were out working. These dudes were only able to hang out so long and disrupt law abiding Ottawa residents and businesses because they were collecting CERB. How’s that for irony.
Wake up man. You can’t blame Trump for the state of affairs in the US? Really? Give your head a shake, crawl out from under the rock and listen to the words Trump and Trump supporters use…full of hate, racism, entitlement. darkness and negativity. But sure, support Trump.
Norm Vanstone says
I disagree with a number of points mentioned by Ray Vowels but will only tackle one now. He states “and second there was no violence at all until the cops showed up” . A blaring cacophony of loud truck horns, night and day, is violence. A number of residents have ended up with hearing damage. Trying to mentally break through that sound is very challenging and damaging.
Anna-Lise Kear says
I don’t think Mr. Vowels is able to identify DT’s personality disorder and mental health challenges, let alone the effects of populism and lies perpetrated by the Donald. DT is a man with a deep hole of need that is never satisfied, prompting him to lie constantly, and denigrate people of colour, women, people with disabilities, etc. – that is a tragedy. The GOP has been using populism to get people angry. Populism has come back to bite Jason Kenny. Some in the US are getting very tired of being told who they should disparage, distain, or hate by their politicians and religious leaders.
Populism is emotional abuse of the electorate, promotes division and hatred of “the other” whoever that may be identified by those political parties using this strategy to win votes.
I have given up on hoping those who are anti-lockdown, anti-vaccinations, anti-health protocols will Ever understand their useful purpose, virology, and the public health laws in place to protect communities during a raging pandemic, epidemic. Sadly, we continue to see their deaths and with them die the others who have followed the law willingly.
Nancy Long says
I’m curious about Anthony Clark’s statistics regarding covid deaths. Presuming that all countries have collected fairly accurate data, I see the following (but I could be wrong, since my math skills are declining):
1. USA 1 death for every 300 cases
2. Canada 1 death for every 1000 cases
3. Austrailia 1 death for every 3000 cases
Kyle DeSoto says
“Thousands quit school and many won’t ever return”.
Umm, proof & sources please?
Excellent wordsmithing for the author’s own benefit.